I enjoyed reading your insights. I have had the biggest crush on Esther Perel since I first heard her. What a brilliant woman! As I was reading, I felt like sharing that in my first language (Macedonian), “dating” is not part of the vocabulary. I live in the US, so when people ask me if I am dating, I never know what to say (Yesss? Maybee? I mean, I would go out with someone interesting I find in happenstance). It’s really interesting to think about it from linguistic and cultural perspective too. I might write something about it one day :)
heather this is maybe my favorite article you've ever written. i feel i'll be revisiting this over and over again for all of its pearls of wisdom!!!
OK- How cool is this? Jealous! I love noticing quiet people. It has taken a lot of practice for me to do that!
Thank you for this play-by-play - especially the part about noticing when the quietest person in the room furrows her brow.
I enjoyed reading your insights. I have had the biggest crush on Esther Perel since I first heard her. What a brilliant woman! As I was reading, I felt like sharing that in my first language (Macedonian), “dating” is not part of the vocabulary. I live in the US, so when people ask me if I am dating, I never know what to say (Yesss? Maybee? I mean, I would go out with someone interesting I find in happenstance). It’s really interesting to think about it from linguistic and cultural perspective too. I might write something about it one day :)
This is beyond! Such a wholesome and refreshing perspective on dating that isn’t male-centered. Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your experience especially those that were your personal thoughts and feelings. A beautiful article.
I love Esther and really what it boils down to is we are all human. And being human is a messy art. Thanks for your post!
Beautiful Heather
You’re an amazing writer, I’m just obsessed with your point of view and voice
U really crack me tf up girl, well done
Read this over breakfast, enjoyed all your insights and reflections so much!
This was so greatly written! Loved your observations and loved getting to learn more about Gen Z and the perils of online dating
YAAAA🏆